In our current world, many of us are in mourning – but a collective mourning for rights lost, empathy for others lost, and a world that is teetering closer to a reality most of us will not like. Listening to historian Heather Cox Richardson yesterday, she pointed out that this is also a moment to be creative and to look toward rebuilding our world the way we want it to be. This will take a lot of work and a lot people who are used to being on the sidelines stepping up. But first, I think we should let ourselves mourn what we have lost.
Blessings,
Thistle

Seven of Vessels – Mourning
MEANING: This is a time to honor what is dead and mourn for what has gone. Learn the lesson of letting go by offering thanks for cherished memories and being at peace with the past.
DESCRIPTION: A human skull painted with an array of designs including spirals, zig-zags and wavy lines, lies at the foot of a tree. Around it are scattered typical grave goods: five cups, and oil lamp, and an offering bowl.
READING POINTS: Mourning begins the process of recovery after failure or bereavement. This process may even be unconscious, for we often do not realize what things were significant until they are gone. Mourning serves to ritualize the process of being at peace and honor the passing of what is important and significant in a personal relationship. It allows the tidal flow of emotions to rise and fall naturally through the psyche, and bring a sense of closure or completion and peace. This may take time, of course, and some losses are felt more acutely than others as mourning is a very personal and individual process, sometimes taking years to complete.
In Ireland, the wake exemplifies one way of processing and dealing with loss by turning the ritual into a celebration of life and achievement. The celebration of the completed journey and the beginning of a new one has been a part of the human mourning process since the dawn of time. Whatever the loss, whoever the wake is being held for, let them go with love, and honor their passing with fond memories. Hold the golden, beautiful moments of life close and let their passing not go without a note of reverence for a life fully lived.
The Wildwood Tarot by authors Mark Ryan and John Matthews and artist Will Worthington.